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</o:shapelayout></xml><![endif]--></head><body lang=EN-US link=blue vlink=purple><div class=WordSection1><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Hey all,<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Many, many thanks to Lady Hilary for an outstanding program on Friday night!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Great information as well as an amazing demo with a lot of audience participation.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Special thank you to Ms. SF Leather 2011 Ms. Bethie Bee for being an incredible demo bottom.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Please check out Lady Hilary¡¯s <a href="http://vanguardleather.com/index.htm">http://vanguardleather.com/index.htm</a> .<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Coming up for our next program:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Mind Fucks/Mental Games<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Presented by Rope Wolf<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Friday November 18, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>¡°How do I safely fuck with someone¡¯s mind?¡± If you want the answer to that question, this class is for you! I will get those creative wheels turning in your mind. Learn how to intensify the tricks that you already know by adding Mind Fucks and Mental Games to your toy bag. Turn the volume up, put a bit of a scare in ¡®em, get their undivided attention, make their hair stand up on end, and get every goose bump on the alert. Up the ante of your Dominance/submission (D/s) with simple commands. That girl, smart-ass masochist or submissive will go down for you more intensely. Learn how to use the simplest things — your voice, a blindfold, a look. Real time demonstrations will allow you to watch the effects of mind fucks/mental games on an unsuspecting bottom.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>You will receive a handout of the class contents and a resource list of books and movies.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Presenter Bio(s)<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Rope Wolf is an American Indian/Irish butch that grew up in San Francisco. When not working for the corporate dollar, hy writes erotica and short stories, and speaks and teaches on behalf of the LBGT community on a variety of topics, including BDSM. Hy is a member of Alameda County Leather Corp.,TheExiles.org, MasT (Masters and slaves Together) and co-founder of www.ButchFemmeSocials.com.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'>Other workshops or classes hy has presented:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> Leather Traditions S.F., presented a workshop on D/s protocols and rituals<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Six Bondage Tricks for your Toy Bag¡± at Exiles, San Francisco 2005<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Knife Play¡± at NLA-Dallas 2002<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Erotic D/s 24/7-Beginning to Intermediate¡± at IMsL 2007, Mayhem Canada 2009<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Bondage for Beginners¡± at IMsL 2008<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Beginning Fisting¡± at LLW 2007<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'> ¡°Fire Play¡± at the S.F. Citadel 2008<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><div><div style='border:none;border-top:solid #B5C4DF 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0in 0in 0in'><p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> exilesmembers-bounces@theexilessf.net [mailto:exilesmembers-bounces@theexilessf.net] <b>On Behalf Of </b>Robin<br><b>Sent:</b> Friday, October 21, 2011 3:58 PM<br><b>To:</b> exilesmembers@theexilessf.net<br><b>Subject:</b> [ExilesAnnounce] TONIGHT----TONIGHT----TONIGHT<o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto'><b><span style='font-size:13.5pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif"'>TONIGHT IN SF-Exiles- How to Host a Gang Bang w/Lady Hilary<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto'><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif"'>The cruising zone opens at 7:30 p.m, program starts at 8 p.m.<br>Programs are open to women and those whose gender self-identification is other than male.<br>ASL interpretation is available.<br>For more details, please visit The Exiles' site.<br>Fetlife event listing here.<br>For information about volunteering and an earned free entrance, please email <a href="mailto:ExilesVolunteer@yahoo.com">ExilesVolunteer@yahoo.com</a>.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto'><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif"'>Program Description<br>Have you or one of your play partners always wanted to be ¡°taken¡± by a gang, a group, a mob? This is the workshop for you, we will discuss head space, safety, preparation, negotiation and after care for both the Top¡¯s and bottom(s). We will have an live demo involving the crowd using a stunt bottom- do you want to play?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto'><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif"'>About the Presenter<br>Lady Hilary has been traversing the leather kink world for over 20 years. By example and through teaching, she shares her passion and love for all expressions of joyful alternative or non-traditional relationships. The creation of Vanguard Weekends for queer kinky folks to gather in an intimate environment for the purpose of growth and exploration has been her passion since 2005; you can find out more on <a href="http://VanguardLeather.com" target="_blank">http://VanguardLeather.com</a>. She can also be found teaching locally in the SF Bay Area as well as nationally for various leather and kink organizations on relationship topics of all kinds.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto'><span style='font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Times New Roman","serif"'>Program Meeting Info<br>¢¾ Programs are at the Women's Building in San Francisco (3543 - 18th Street at Valencia) map<br>¢¾ All women (and those whose gender self-identity is other than male) who are over 18 are welcome.<br>¢¾ We have sign language interpreters at all of our meetings.<br>¢¾ Door fees are $4 for members and $10 for non-members. Please have your membership card or ID ready to speed entry.<br>¢¾ The program runs from 8:00 - 10:00pm and the cruising zone opens at 7:30pm.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Robin<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>Coordinator<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>The Exiles<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal>San Francisco<o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p></div></body></html>