[Exiles Members] Don't Miss This Friday's Educational Program: The Topography of Terror!

[Jackie Cohen]

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   - *Educational Program: The Topography of Terror*


Friday, January 20, 7:30 pm to 10:15 pm
Center for Sex and Culture
1349 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA 94103

Playing with terror is an extremely intense form of edgeplay that reaches
into the darkest recesses of the human mind. It taps into our most primal
parts, so manipulating it can place a scene on exciting and dangerous
ground. Terror play can illicit strong and, sometimes, illogical and
unpredictable reactions from both the bottom and the top. Learning how to
use fear as a method of edgeplay while mitigating the potential for
possible mental and physical damage is like walking a razor’s edge.

In this class, tops will learn how to get into a bottom’s head and
(consensually) exploit their deepest fears. Bottoms will be learn tools to
effectively discuss, negotiate, and engage in fear play as safely as
possible. Expect the unexpected, as this class will teach you how to safely
incorporate terror as an intensely connective form of mindfuck and give you
the tools to use it as the basis of an edgeplay scene.

Due to the intensity of the topic, this class is not recommended for
beginners in the world of BDSM. Class attendees should arrive already
understanding the concepts of RACK, scene negotiations, BDSM safety, and
aftercare (i.e.: know all the rules before learning to bend them). Also,
fair warning, some may find the demo presentation and subject matter for
this class disturbing. After all, that is the entire point.

*About Our Presenter: *Miss Lola Sunshine is really just your average,
garden variety queer, high femme, switch, slut, sexworker, pervert, and
burlesque performer. She enjoys destroying dichotomies, dissecting absolute
truths, and dismantling heteronormativity. She believes in sex, glitter,
excellent manners, and cooking with real butter. She lives, works, and
plays in the SF Bay Area with her dog Cupcake and over 90 pairs of shoes.

Lola is the president of QueerSphere, and co-host of the SF Citadel’s
People of Color focused party, Vibe. She is an active member of San
Francisco girls of Leather and the Exiles. She also teaches classes in
human doll play, and behavior modification through D/s oriented historical
discipline.

• $5 for members, $10 for non-members
• Open to women and those who self-identify as other than male, who are 18
and up, with a healthy interest in BDSM
• Please have membership card or ID ready to speed entry.
• Visit our website at www.theexiles.org
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