[ExilesAnnounce] Fri. 2/19: Hands-On Play with Jay: the Exiles' Monthly Program (SF)

[Suzanne Corson]

Hands-on Play with Jay: smacking, spanking, pinching,
punching, stroking, and hitting.  
 
Friday, February 19, 2010
8-10 p.m., doors open at 7:30 p.m.
$4 Exiles members, $10 non-members
at the Women's Building, 3543 18th St. @ Valencia, SF
 
Hands can be sensuous, sexy, subtle, or downright vicious,
depending on how, or how hard, they’re used. They can be a vehicle to intimacy,
or a route to keep your bottom off-kilter in scene. Hands can bring more energy
and closeness to warm ups or cool downs, or can be an entire scene unto
themselves. 
 
As a top, Jay finds his hands to be very intimate toys. He’s
been told that they can be more painful than any other instruments, including
canes, and that they have brought connection to first-time play with new
partners. In Jay’s experience as a bottom, hands were the sole instruments in
one of the most intense scenes that he has ever participated in. Jay will
explore various ways to use hands to create pleasure and pain in a BDSM
context. 
 
This workshop will cover how different hand shapes and types
of strike can change the sensations that we create on impact, as well as how we
can practice self-care when playing with our hands.  It will include demonstrations, but will also
be interactive for all who wish to participate. Please bring your thin leather
gloves with you if you have them! 
 
 
About Our Presenter: Jay identifies as a queer trans Daddy,
and a top-heavy switch.  Jay has hosted
workshops on topics including: BDSM safety, SM 101, kink and disability, and
various skill building workshops such as: sticks, rods and canes, dime-store
kink, kinky dating, sense and sensation scenes, and his favorite topic -
hands-on play. He has been in and around kinky community since 1989, and has
been involved with the Exiles, Screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and
friends, and with San Francisco Sex Education (SFSI) trainings for many
years.  
 
For more information about the Exiles, check out www.theexiles.org as
well as our groups on FetLife, Facebook, MySpace, and
Tribe.net!
 
And remember our next orientation is Friday, February 5 at
the MCC on Eureka near Castro in San Francisco, 7:30-9:30 p.m., and the next
Exiles Munch is Wednesday, February 10 at Wicked Grounds, 289 8th St. (between
Tehama and Clementina), SF, from 6-8:30 p.m.
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